How to build self-trust by changing the way you speak to yourself
Episode Snapshot: Many women are kind and compassionate to everyone around them but harsh and critical toward themselves. In this episode, Tashi explores how your inner dialogue shapes your ability to trust yourself—and how shifting that voice can begin rebuilding self-trust from the inside out.
What You’ll Learn
- Why your inner dialogue is the foundation of self-trust
- How harsh self-talk affects your nervous system and confidence
- A simple Notice → Name → Nurture framework to shift your inner voice
- A practical self-trust practice using a simple thought log
Key Moments in this Episode
0:00 Welcome to Season Two of The Notion of You
3:14 The quiet moment when critical inner dialogue appears
7:25 Why your inner voice determines whether self-trust grows or erodes
10:15 The Notice → Name → Nurture framework for shifting self-talk
19:18 A nightly self-trust practice to calm your mind and body
The Lesson
- Section One: Self-trust is not built through big public decisions. It is revealed in the tone of your inner dialogue when you are alone with your thoughts.
- Section Two: Many women internalize harsh self-talk and perfectionism, believing it will motivate them. In reality, constant self-criticism creates nervous system stress and erodes confidence.
- Section Three: The Notice → Name → Nurture framework helps you shift your inner dialogue by catching harsh thoughts, recognizing them as protective stories, and responding with compassion and truth.
- Section Four: A simple self-talk log—using a journal or a Notion page—helps externalize your thoughts so you can see patterns and begin practicing healthier inner dialogue.
- Section Five: Combining reflection with calming rituals like breathwork or essential oils can help regulate your nervous system while you rebuild self-trust.
Quote Worth Remembering:
“Self-trust is built in the quiet moments when you choose compassion over criticism in your inner dialogue.”
This episode is part of the Natural Alignment framework. A four-step method to regulate your nervous system, reconnect to your intuition, realign your identity, and rebuild self-trust. → Read the full framework here.
Links & Resources
- Then, if you want the full transformation, check out my ebook Return to Wholeness – 45 pages of practices, oil pairings, and guided rituals.
- First, grab my free Scattered to Steady Workbook– it’s the exact framework I use when life feels chaotic.